I know a friend who is in love with his friend. She asked him what will happen once she finds someone she actually wants to be with (like for real), and he doesn’t have a plan. I don’t understand why he should. He said it’s good to have a plan sometimes, like for an earthquake (he lives in cali), or a plan for if he loses his job, but there is nothing he can plan for or do if Mona gets a boyfriend (he’s a little off there though, because actually, there is everything in the world he can do if she gets a boyfriend. (He can do anything and everything he wants). But it’s ok (more than ok), to not have a plan for that scenario, because only one of those situations involves the earth crumbling, and all of them involve life going on.